10 House Hunters Search for Forever Homes

10 House Hunters Search for Forever Homes

10 House Hunters Search for Forever Homes

Will These House Hunters Find Their Dream Homes

City or country Downsize or expand Follow 10 people through bidding wars and tough choices on the road to their new home

Top center tiny house, Shutterstock; all others, Getty Images (5) Downsizing has its upsides. Research shows that older Americans who move as part of a tend to be happier than those who stay put. Here’s a look at where and why several age-50-plus single people and couples are relocating. We invite you to make your own picks by scrolling to the bottom of each scenario. Click on the winning home button to read about each home and see how your picks stack up against our home hunters’ final selections. (Note that in some cases the choices described reflect representative examples rather than actual properties considered, and prices are largely pre-pandemic.)

The Scenario Small-town charm

Photo by Theo Stroomer

House hunters Franck and Tracy Louis-Marie 52 and 57

The minute their nest emptied this year, the Louis-Maries decided to leave Los Angeles. “We literally wanted to blaze new trails,” Tracy says. “And drive fewer freeways!” Franck adds. On the wish list: a city on a “human scale, definitely not sprawling,” Franck says. Someplace, Tracy explains, “where people walk along a tree-lined Main Street, with public art and historic buildings and friendly mom-and-pop shops.” Also, access to the great outdoors. And after years of mostly renting in L.A., they wanted to own a two- or three-bedroom home with a big yard. Budget: $450,000 Moving from: Marina del Rey, California, apartment rental Family status: Married 25 years; two 20-something kids Employment: Tracy: part-time adviser to companies on social-impact policies; Franck: art director for entertainment companies. Both work remotely.

Forever home contenders

1. Grass Valley, California 2. Grand Junction, Colorado 3. Portland, Oregon

The Scenario Time to Super-Downsize

Reed Young

House hunter Betsy Barbour 66

When rising fees priced Betsy out of her condo, she needed a housing solution she could cover with partial Social Security, part-time jobs and limited savings. “I couldn’t afford to completely retire,” she says. She sold her two-bedroom condo for $75,000. Budget:
Moving from: 1,200-square-foot Fort Myers, Florida, condo that she owned outright Family status: Divorced; one adult son, one grandchild Employment: Retired field linguist (she created written languages out of oral ones); working part-time jobs as a specialist in cross-cultural communications

Forever home contenders

1. Fort Myers, Florida 2. Tavares, Florida 3. Fort Myers, Florida

The Scenario The Cabin Is Calling

Ackermann Gruber

House hunters Chris and Kathleen Rewey 69 and 53

The Reweys expected to retire to a house they built years ago outside Madison. But when COVID hit, Chris obsessed about a log cabin his dad’s dad had built on a lake in northern Wisconsin. “My uncles sold it in the 1990s, leaving a hole in my heart,” he says. Meanwhile, in 2021, the couple bought a winter home in Panama City, Florida, where they could work remotely and rent during the summer. With winter covered, whither the rest of the year?
Budget: $560,000 Moving from: Madison, Wisconsin Family status: Married 25 years; no kids Employment: Chris: head of a software company; Kathleen: sales executive for a social-care organization

Forever home contenders

1. Panama City, Florida 2. Minocqua, Wisconsin 3. Eastern Tennessee

The Scenario Follow the Parents or Fly Free

Caleb Alvarado

House hunter Laura Campbell 55

Laura’s active 80-something parents regularly rented a winter place in Florida, so she decided to move south from the family’s Connecticut base and stay in Florida year-round. “It was important to me to be close to them,” says Laura, who arrived in Delray Beach in October 2019. Then came COVID-19. “My parents decided they wanted to live out their whole lives in Connecticut, where they still had so many friends. I had a big decision to make.” Budget: $2,200/month Moving from: Delray Beach, Florida, apartment rental Family status: Divorced; two adult sons Employment: Life coach and consultant

Forever home contenders

1. Golden, Colorado 2. Delray Beach, Florida 3. Woodbridge, Connecticut

The Scenario A Place for Dad

Gabriela Hasbun

House hunter Bob Grant 71

Grant was living in a condo near the Vegas Strip when he had a stroke seven years ago. In California, his five children — all ex-pro athletes — rallied, and his daughter, who lives in the Bay Area, took Bob in. But after several years, she simply found it too hard to care for Grant and three (now four) young kids. Budget: $175,000 Moving from: Las Vegas condo Family status: Divorced; five adult kids, 10 grandchildren Employment: Retired chemical engineer

Forever home contenders

1. Bay Area, California 2. Bay Area, California 3. Bay Area, California

The Scenario Sellin Off Movin On

Peter Ross

House hunters Quinn and Vivian Golden 61 and 59

“We told our kids, ‘Mom and Dad aren’t going to retire here, so grow your wings and fly,’ ” says Quinn, whose job “got COVIDed” in 2020, as he puts it. The Goldens sold their 2,200-square-foot hilltop cabin for $400,000, and sold motorcycles, boats, even a Model A Ford, to help bridge the gap until full retirement. But they needed a place to live.
Budget: $400,000 Moving from: Alton, New Hampshire, hilltop log home Family status: Married 36 years; six adult kids Employment: Quinn: retired paper-mill sales professional; Vivian: retired stay-at-home mom

Forever home contenders br

1. Portland, Maine 2. Everywhere Road Trip 3. Dansville, New York

The Scenario Eyes on the South

Andrew Hetherington

House hunter Donna Deans 68

Donna Deans arrived in New York City in 1977, right after finishing college. She had planned to live there forever. But when the pandemic shuttered the furniture company where she worked, she kissed the Big Apple goodbye, looking to the South. Her $1,700-a-month, rent-stabilized one-bedroom place was “a bargain for New York City,” she says, but not cheap enough to allow her to live off Social Security and her 401(k) for the rest of her life. Her goal: to find someplace under $1,200 a month in a modern building, with a deck or garden. And “you don’t move to the South without excellent AC,” she adds. Budget: $1,200/month Moving from: Brooklyn, New York, apartment rental Marital status: Single; no kids, dating Employment: Recently retired furniture salesperson

Forever home contenders

1. Sanford, Florida 2. Wilson, North Carolina 3. Fort Oglethorpe, Georgia

David Hochman, a contributing editor to , is a journalist and features writer based in Los Angeles. His December 2020 story on nursing homes, “18 Weeks,” has won several national awards.

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