30 Signs Indicating That A Relationship Has Reached A Dead End As Pointed Out By Folks In This Online Group
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Publish Not your original work? Add source It's a darn shame when a relationship doesn't last a lifetime. And while much of it is dependent on how the people in a relationship play their cards, an end is sometimes an inevitability because there isn't any chemistry, or someone gave up halfway, or maybe the two don't agree on which side the toilet paper roll should be hung on the holder. Whatever the case, it sometimes happens, and the AskReddit community have been listing key signs that a relationship has run its course, reaching nearly 4,000 comments and the post garnering over 20,000 upvotes. Check out the best of the best answers shared in the viral post below. And why not upvote and comment on them, sharing some of your signs of the end of a relationship in the comment section below! More Info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1 Several, but off the top of my head... The sight of them does nothing for you. Getting a text or phone call from them elicits an eyeroll. You try to avoid them. You cannot hold a conversation with them because everything they say is irritating. You really could not care less about their day or anything they have to say to you. You find yourself fantasizing of a life without them... and it makes you smile. You know, just to name a few. PurpleVein99 , Garry Knight Report Final score: 151points POST Tamora Spiller Tamora Spiller Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Been there, left that. 27 27points reply View more comments #2 If you find that you can only relax and be yourself when they aren’t around, crushing you with the weight of their silent judgement and disapproval, it’s way past the expiration date. downhereforyoursoul , Anathea Utley Report Final score: 139points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Learning to disregard every unnecessary thing that won't help for your self growth is a mature thing to do 10 10points reply View more comments #3 From personal experience, the biggest indicator is when tensions should be high, you should be upset or arguing, but you just don't care anymore. ThunderPantsDance , Incase Report Final score: 114points POST #4 You've bottled your real feelings up so much that now everything they do or say fills you with contempt lol. Oops breakfastinthemornin , Hernán Piñera Report Final score: 106points POST Ellie Rosser Ellie Rosser Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago “Subtle” signs LOL 18 18points reply View more comments #5 When you turn the corner driving home, and feel disappointment when you see her car in the driveway - because you know the minute you step in the door she's going to start crapping on you again. lucky_ducker Report Final score: 100points POST Tamora Spiller Tamora Spiller Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Ditto if you're home and you hear his car pull up. 7 7points reply View more comments #6 When the thought of being near/around them gives you anxiety. Not the normal "I hope I don't look like a fool around them" anxiety, but that deep, instinctual fight or flight sense of dread TourmalineDreams Report Final score: 94points POST Valerie G. Valerie G. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That's the way I felt pressing the elevator button to go upstairs to my job. Quit soon after and was so much lighter. But don't you know, they replaced me with two girls and a month later they were phoning asking if I wanted to some part-time work since they couldn't keep up with all the tasks that I had managed alone for six years. 11 11points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 When you can’t make yourself trust them again no matter how hard you try. rebelliousarms , Seeds_of_Peace Report Final score: 90points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I understand this kind of feeling 13 13points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 You used to think their little quirks and habits were adorable, Now they are just annoying AF. JustAnotherMaineGirl Report Final score: 84points POST Piper Meadow Piper Meadow Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. I simply did not notice that my husband ate like a slob, for the first 2-3 years of us living together. Oh I was so in love. Now after almost 12 years I feel like I want to tape his mouth shut sometimes but I never say anything although his smacking and eating like a cow annoys me so much.:)))) I love him 40 40points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 You no longer like the way your SO smells. GenJonesMom Report Final score: 81points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Time to change your "perfume" LOL 9 9points reply View more comments #10 You have something big happen and they are not the first person you call.
I had a car accident at like 5am and didn’t even bother calling my now ex, he was useless and I called the people that mattered. Silly__Rabbit , Pete Report Final score: 68points POST Pat Bond Pat Bond Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago First call I make is to the RAC & insurance company, I pay enough for it, they can come and fix or tow me to the garage. I'm not going to bother/worry anyone at 5am unless it's an urgent trip to A&E. 5 5points reply #11 When you realize you don't wish the best for her/him...you don't wish her/him any harm either...just disinterested in building something better together. cohenian-rhapsody , Jason Ippolito Report Final score: 64points POST Valerie G. Valerie G. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Damn, you can have love or hate and there is passion in both, but indifference is a killer. 8 8points reply View more comments #12 You're both cheating on each other with the same person. [deleted] , Ivan Wang Report Final score: 62points POST Mary Rose Kent Mary Rose Kent Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That could also just be an arrangement that works for all three parties once they’ve worked out the parameters of the deal 30 30points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 When texting them becomes a chore instead of something that makes you happy borjansen , Lars Plougmann Report Final score: 62points POST Dani Alexander Dani Alexander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Not necessarily. Sometimes texting anyone you love can be a chore. The problem sparks when there is a total lack of emotion when texting back, feeling nothing at all. 12 12points reply View more comments #14 When you go to AskReddit to see if sexting is considered cheating. onidels Report Final score: 60points POST La Kalypso La Kalypso Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago If you're doing something that would deeply hurt your partner if they were next to you while you're doing it, then that's cheating. It's not really the act in itself, it's the broken trust. 10 10points reply View more comments #15 When you stop seeing a future with them. SixFeetBlunder , Gareth Williams Report Final score: 60points POST WildBerry WildBerry Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Don't know about 'seeing a future' but at first glance, seeing that dress made me think she was wearing some kind of strange bra on the outside of her clothing. 24 24points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 When you catch yourself lying often. When you're hiding who you are around them because you don't want to fight or disappoint them.
Oh, and when you won't f**k each other anymore. I_hate_traveling , Slava Report Final score: 52points POST M Calad M Calad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) This happened to my best friend. Telling the truth to her bf was terryfing, so she constantly lied. What I mean with truth were things that are normal for many people but for her boyfriend were unacceptable. And of course, she got caught (bf checked her phone regularly) and boy, fights were spectacular. Hard for me to see her passing through all of that and finally happy when she got her sh1t together and dumped him. 11 11points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #17 When you notice that your partner doesn't miss you (or vice versa) after being separated for a while. If you've been apart for a couple weeks or longer and your partner still feels no particular urgency to see you or talk to you, then the relationship is dead. RurouniKarly , Andrey Report Final score: 50points POST vogonpoet vogonpoet Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I work 8 hours a day, 4 x a week. I miss him. And he misses me making his cuppa tea. And also taking the piss outta me. It's definitely love. Especially when he pops out and scares me shitless after a long day at work. Has our son doubled over with laughter. So much happiness from what was supposed to be a mutual casual shag. 14 14points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 When everything about your life is being controlled down to the tiny details. CarlosTheBoss , joel Report Final score: 50points POST ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago this. get out fast. 20 20points reply View more comments #19 When you discover irreconcilable differences. Relationships take a lot of work- there will be times when you don't want to be together, or when you're not sexually in sync, or whatever. Those things need to be worked through and your relationship will be stronger for it. The red flag I would watch out for is inherent differences in morality, beliefs, that kind of thing. [deleted] , Mussi Katz Report Final score: 49points POST Verena Abt Verena Abt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Yes, opposites do not attract in the long run. You must have the same values. 7 7points reply View more comments #20 When you come home after work and no one is home and 90% of everything in the house is gone. (Happened twice) GokuRocks1 , Kevin Marsh Report Final score: 48points POST Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Twice? If it happened twice u might need to do some serious self reflection on your part 75 75points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 When you're physically in the same room, but it feels as though the other person isn't there - that their thoughts and emotions are somewhere else. Back2Bach , Britney M Report Final score: 46points POST Josy Bannon Josy Bannon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Ugh I hated this so much with my exes 5 5points reply View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #22 I begged my boss to send me on business trips. Taney34 , Jacek Becela Report Final score: 42points POST Sheila Stamey Sheila Stamey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago When you get a phone call, saying your SO is going to be gone unexpectedly for two weeks and you respond " ok I'll miss you,luv you,bye" and then do the happy dance, and you are pretty sure they are too? Just make that two weeks permanent. Talking from experience. It got so strained onto that before we divorced, my ex was gone three of four weekends in the month. He was so unpleasant to be around when he was there, I was glad he was cheating! Not even joking. The three kids and I would drop him off at the little airport (we owned a crappy little 1960 Cessna) and as soon as he took off, McDonald's and movie time! 7 7points reply View more comments #23 When you no longer care if they ate something all day or not. InquisitiveMD , Eric.Ray Report Final score: 42points POST Dani Alexander Dani Alexander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I think it’s not the specific context of “eating” but the gesture that comes with it, asking is caring and thoughtful, because they love you 8 8points reply View more comments #24 Contempt. I took a marriage and family course in college and there professor said that’s one of the biggest signs things are going to/should end. And I’ve 100% been there tldrjane , dr_zoidberg Report Final score: 41points POST Busy Panda Busy Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I feel it too. But not with my partner. It's with my mother. 13 13points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 There’s a voice in your head that says “You know it’s over” .... every time my relationship has been ending I have had this happen. Sometimes you fight it, sometimes you don’t . But the voice is always right in the end . DJ_DD , Franco Dal Molin Report Final score: 37points POST No you didn't No you didn't Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This was usually my #1 indicator. 1 1point reply View more comments #26 "(S)He is just a friend, you don't have to worry about them" -> spends more time with friend than partner.
(might sound lame because of the memes, but my almost 6 years SO cheated on me and now is dating the 'friend') VelkenT , Sirenz Lorraine Report Final score: 35points POST Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Thats tough 10 10points reply View more comments #27 When all you can think about is how different you are.
When you're lying or making excuses to not be with them.
When they go on a Spring Break trip and screw a guy she went to high school with repeatedly for a week. [deleted] , Francesco Report Final score: 34points POST Supernatural Supernatural Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Wow...that went downhill fast! 25 25points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28 When someone says your SO's name and you give a sigh or a grimaced look on your face. llcucf80 , Lindspetrol Report Final score: 33points POST Albino Albino Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago At that point it's long over. 11 11points reply #29 When spending time is something you have to give effort to actively think about and plan out as opposed to something you look forward to and excitedly long for. I know that's what it was for me: she became a block in my schedule instead of the reason my schedule existed. maleorderbride , Nicholas Canup Report Final score: 31points POST Tee Witt Tee Witt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That sounds so sad. 6 6points reply View more comments #30 When either of you whip out your phone constantly when together. Can't hold a moment of comfortable silence to appreciate you both being in each other's presence. PassiveBrandon , Susanne Nilsson Report Final score: 27points POST ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago don't agree with this one, we spend a lot of time on our phones, it doesn't necessarily mean that. I'd say this point is correct if they're both looking at tinder or facebook. But if you're reading the news or watching cat videos i think it is fine. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 34 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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POST DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I don't want to come across as smug, but reading this post reminds me how amazing my own relationship is. Things are shitty in several aspects of my life, but my bond with my wife isn't one of them. She's my rock, and I'm hers. However, I've definitely experienced some of these points in previous relationships. 16 16points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Aww. You're very lucky! 4 4points reply Load More Replies... DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I really am. 0 0points reply Susie Elle Susie Elle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago These aren't red flags - these are the giant red banners you're wrapped in after having ignored the red flags for years. 14 14points reply Amy Dodds Amy Dodds Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) When they knowingly restrain your limbs when you have a phobia and don't let go as you scream 'get off!!' over and over again. Then they try to change the narrative, saying they were just trying to cuddle you, and suddenly you started punching them?? Then they come home, pour juice over your head and smear food in your hair and face while screaming at you for not apologising to them when you have already apologised over and over. Last night was interesting. 7 7points reply ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago hmm that's assault. lay a charge, get a restraining order, and move out. 15 15points reply Load More Replies... LB LB Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I am so sorry this happened. Some aspects of this remind me of my abusive marriage. He would do physically intimidating things that made me feel uncomfortable and scared, and if I pushed him away, he would say that I attacked him for no reason. They are f*****g with your head. They are abusing you and trying to make you feel at fault. It is not your fault. It took me a long time to leave. I wish I had left sooner, but I’m so glad I eventually got out. You don’t deserve this. Don’t believe the lies. Please leave as quickly and safely as you can. Please access the domestic violence hotline or any other domestic violence services that are available where you live. Even just talking with someone can be helpful. Before, during, and after getting out - there are people who can help you and help you recover. Wishing for your health and safety, and sending hugs. 9 9points reply Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Oh my goodness. Are u ok? 8 8points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Good god, call the police! 7 7points reply Heidi Heidi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago What Amy?! This is way too nonchalant, be good to yourself and don't accept that behavior. 5 5points reply Falanu Hlaalu Falanu Hlaalu Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago RUN 4 4points reply Zedrapazia Zedrapazia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago S**t, what happened to you? 4 4points reply Load More Comments POST DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I don't want to come across as smug, but reading this post reminds me how amazing my own relationship is. Things are shitty in several aspects of my life, but my bond with my wife isn't one of them. She's my rock, and I'm hers. However, I've definitely experienced some of these points in previous relationships. 16 16points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Aww. You're very lucky! 4 4points reply Load More Replies... DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I really am. 0 0points reply Susie Elle Susie Elle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago These aren't red flags - these are the giant red banners you're wrapped in after having ignored the red flags for years. 14 14points reply Amy Dodds Amy Dodds Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) When they knowingly restrain your limbs when you have a phobia and don't let go as you scream 'get off!!' over and over again. Then they try to change the narrative, saying they were just trying to cuddle you, and suddenly you started punching them?? Then they come home, pour juice over your head and smear food in your hair and face while screaming at you for not apologising to them when you have already apologised over and over. Last night was interesting. 7 7points reply ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago hmm that's assault. lay a charge, get a restraining order, and move out. 15 15points reply Load More Replies... LB LB Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I am so sorry this happened. Some aspects of this remind me of my abusive marriage. He would do physically intimidating things that made me feel uncomfortable and scared, and if I pushed him away, he would say that I attacked him for no reason. They are f*****g with your head. They are abusing you and trying to make you feel at fault. It is not your fault. It took me a long time to leave. I wish I had left sooner, but I’m so glad I eventually got out. You don’t deserve this. Don’t believe the lies. Please leave as quickly and safely as you can. Please access the domestic violence hotline or any other domestic violence services that are available where you live. Even just talking with someone can be helpful. Before, during, and after getting out - there are people who can help you and help you recover. Wishing for your health and safety, and sending hugs. 9 9points reply Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Oh my goodness. Are u ok? 8 8points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Good god, call the police! 7 7points reply Heidi Heidi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago What Amy?! This is way too nonchalant, be good to yourself and don't accept that behavior. 5 5points reply Falanu Hlaalu Falanu Hlaalu Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago RUN 4 4points reply Zedrapazia Zedrapazia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago S**t, what happened to you? 4 4points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. Woman Takes DNA Test For Fun Only To Discover Her Long-Term Boyfriend Is Her Full Sibling "I Just Said Thank You And Left": Man’s Nice Gesture Is Praised After Pizza Hut Driver Got A $20 Tip On A $938 Order Woman Flabbergasted At Thrift Store's Prices, Calls Them Out By Sharing 14 Examples 50 Parents Having A Pretty Miserable Day Photoshop Troll Who Takes Photo Requests Too Literally Strikes Again, And The Result Is Hilarious (17 Pics) Popular on Bored Panda 30 Y.O. 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Publish Not your original work? Add source It's a darn shame when a relationship doesn't last a lifetime. And while much of it is dependent on how the people in a relationship play their cards, an end is sometimes an inevitability because there isn't any chemistry, or someone gave up halfway, or maybe the two don't agree on which side the toilet paper roll should be hung on the holder. Whatever the case, it sometimes happens, and the AskReddit community have been listing key signs that a relationship has run its course, reaching nearly 4,000 comments and the post garnering over 20,000 upvotes. Check out the best of the best answers shared in the viral post below. And why not upvote and comment on them, sharing some of your signs of the end of a relationship in the comment section below! More Info: Reddit This post may include affiliate links. #1 Several, but off the top of my head... The sight of them does nothing for you. Getting a text or phone call from them elicits an eyeroll. You try to avoid them. You cannot hold a conversation with them because everything they say is irritating. You really could not care less about their day or anything they have to say to you. You find yourself fantasizing of a life without them... and it makes you smile. You know, just to name a few. PurpleVein99 , Garry Knight Report Final score: 151points POST Tamora Spiller Tamora Spiller Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Been there, left that. 27 27points reply View more comments #2 If you find that you can only relax and be yourself when they aren’t around, crushing you with the weight of their silent judgement and disapproval, it’s way past the expiration date. downhereforyoursoul , Anathea Utley Report Final score: 139points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Learning to disregard every unnecessary thing that won't help for your self growth is a mature thing to do 10 10points reply View more comments #3 From personal experience, the biggest indicator is when tensions should be high, you should be upset or arguing, but you just don't care anymore. ThunderPantsDance , Incase Report Final score: 114points POST #4 You've bottled your real feelings up so much that now everything they do or say fills you with contempt lol. Oops breakfastinthemornin , Hernán Piñera Report Final score: 106points POST Ellie Rosser Ellie Rosser Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago “Subtle” signs LOL 18 18points reply View more comments #5 When you turn the corner driving home, and feel disappointment when you see her car in the driveway - because you know the minute you step in the door she's going to start crapping on you again. lucky_ducker Report Final score: 100points POST Tamora Spiller Tamora Spiller Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Ditto if you're home and you hear his car pull up. 7 7points reply View more comments #6 When the thought of being near/around them gives you anxiety. Not the normal "I hope I don't look like a fool around them" anxiety, but that deep, instinctual fight or flight sense of dread TourmalineDreams Report Final score: 94points POST Valerie G. Valerie G. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That's the way I felt pressing the elevator button to go upstairs to my job. Quit soon after and was so much lighter. But don't you know, they replaced me with two girls and a month later they were phoning asking if I wanted to some part-time work since they couldn't keep up with all the tasks that I had managed alone for six years. 11 11points reply View More Replies... View more comments #7 When you can’t make yourself trust them again no matter how hard you try. rebelliousarms , Seeds_of_Peace Report Final score: 90points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I understand this kind of feeling 13 13points reply View More Replies... View more comments #8 You used to think their little quirks and habits were adorable, Now they are just annoying AF. JustAnotherMaineGirl Report Final score: 84points POST Piper Meadow Piper Meadow Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. I simply did not notice that my husband ate like a slob, for the first 2-3 years of us living together. Oh I was so in love. Now after almost 12 years I feel like I want to tape his mouth shut sometimes but I never say anything although his smacking and eating like a cow annoys me so much.:)))) I love him 40 40points reply View More Replies... View more comments #9 You no longer like the way your SO smells. GenJonesMom Report Final score: 81points POST Alvin Chip Alvin Chip Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Time to change your "perfume" LOL 9 9points reply View more comments #10 You have something big happen and they are not the first person you call.
I had a car accident at like 5am and didn’t even bother calling my now ex, he was useless and I called the people that mattered. Silly__Rabbit , Pete Report Final score: 68points POST Pat Bond Pat Bond Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago First call I make is to the RAC & insurance company, I pay enough for it, they can come and fix or tow me to the garage. I'm not going to bother/worry anyone at 5am unless it's an urgent trip to A&E. 5 5points reply #11 When you realize you don't wish the best for her/him...you don't wish her/him any harm either...just disinterested in building something better together. cohenian-rhapsody , Jason Ippolito Report Final score: 64points POST Valerie G. Valerie G. Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Damn, you can have love or hate and there is passion in both, but indifference is a killer. 8 8points reply View more comments #12 You're both cheating on each other with the same person. [deleted] , Ivan Wang Report Final score: 62points POST Mary Rose Kent Mary Rose Kent Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That could also just be an arrangement that works for all three parties once they’ve worked out the parameters of the deal 30 30points reply View More Replies... View more comments #13 When texting them becomes a chore instead of something that makes you happy borjansen , Lars Plougmann Report Final score: 62points POST Dani Alexander Dani Alexander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Not necessarily. Sometimes texting anyone you love can be a chore. The problem sparks when there is a total lack of emotion when texting back, feeling nothing at all. 12 12points reply View more comments #14 When you go to AskReddit to see if sexting is considered cheating. onidels Report Final score: 60points POST La Kalypso La Kalypso Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago If you're doing something that would deeply hurt your partner if they were next to you while you're doing it, then that's cheating. It's not really the act in itself, it's the broken trust. 10 10points reply View more comments #15 When you stop seeing a future with them. SixFeetBlunder , Gareth Williams Report Final score: 60points POST WildBerry WildBerry Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Don't know about 'seeing a future' but at first glance, seeing that dress made me think she was wearing some kind of strange bra on the outside of her clothing. 24 24points reply View More Replies... View more comments #16 When you catch yourself lying often. When you're hiding who you are around them because you don't want to fight or disappoint them.
Oh, and when you won't f**k each other anymore. I_hate_traveling , Slava Report Final score: 52points POST M Calad M Calad Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) This happened to my best friend. Telling the truth to her bf was terryfing, so she constantly lied. What I mean with truth were things that are normal for many people but for her boyfriend were unacceptable. And of course, she got caught (bf checked her phone regularly) and boy, fights were spectacular. Hard for me to see her passing through all of that and finally happy when she got her sh1t together and dumped him. 11 11points reply View More Replies... View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #17 When you notice that your partner doesn't miss you (or vice versa) after being separated for a while. If you've been apart for a couple weeks or longer and your partner still feels no particular urgency to see you or talk to you, then the relationship is dead. RurouniKarly , Andrey Report Final score: 50points POST vogonpoet vogonpoet Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I work 8 hours a day, 4 x a week. I miss him. And he misses me making his cuppa tea. And also taking the piss outta me. It's definitely love. Especially when he pops out and scares me shitless after a long day at work. Has our son doubled over with laughter. So much happiness from what was supposed to be a mutual casual shag. 14 14points reply View More Replies... View more comments #18 When everything about your life is being controlled down to the tiny details. CarlosTheBoss , joel Report Final score: 50points POST ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago this. get out fast. 20 20points reply View more comments #19 When you discover irreconcilable differences. Relationships take a lot of work- there will be times when you don't want to be together, or when you're not sexually in sync, or whatever. Those things need to be worked through and your relationship will be stronger for it. The red flag I would watch out for is inherent differences in morality, beliefs, that kind of thing. [deleted] , Mussi Katz Report Final score: 49points POST Verena Abt Verena Abt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Yes, opposites do not attract in the long run. You must have the same values. 7 7points reply View more comments #20 When you come home after work and no one is home and 90% of everything in the house is gone. (Happened twice) GokuRocks1 , Kevin Marsh Report Final score: 48points POST Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Twice? If it happened twice u might need to do some serious self reflection on your part 75 75points reply View More Replies... View more comments #21 When you're physically in the same room, but it feels as though the other person isn't there - that their thoughts and emotions are somewhere else. Back2Bach , Britney M Report Final score: 46points POST Josy Bannon Josy Bannon Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Ugh I hated this so much with my exes 5 5points reply View more comments See Also on Bored Panda Overworked Employee Quits Because He Wasn't Getting A Fair Wage, Costs The Company $40 Million 40 Embarrassing Moments People Didn't Know Who They Were Talking To And Made A Fool Of Themselves #22 I begged my boss to send me on business trips. Taney34 , Jacek Becela Report Final score: 42points POST Sheila Stamey Sheila Stamey Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago When you get a phone call, saying your SO is going to be gone unexpectedly for two weeks and you respond " ok I'll miss you,luv you,bye" and then do the happy dance, and you are pretty sure they are too? Just make that two weeks permanent. Talking from experience. It got so strained onto that before we divorced, my ex was gone three of four weekends in the month. He was so unpleasant to be around when he was there, I was glad he was cheating! Not even joking. The three kids and I would drop him off at the little airport (we owned a crappy little 1960 Cessna) and as soon as he took off, McDonald's and movie time! 7 7points reply View more comments #23 When you no longer care if they ate something all day or not. InquisitiveMD , Eric.Ray Report Final score: 42points POST Dani Alexander Dani Alexander Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I think it’s not the specific context of “eating” but the gesture that comes with it, asking is caring and thoughtful, because they love you 8 8points reply View more comments #24 Contempt. I took a marriage and family course in college and there professor said that’s one of the biggest signs things are going to/should end. And I’ve 100% been there tldrjane , dr_zoidberg Report Final score: 41points POST Busy Panda Busy Panda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I feel it too. But not with my partner. It's with my mother. 13 13points reply View More Replies... View more comments #25 There’s a voice in your head that says “You know it’s over” .... every time my relationship has been ending I have had this happen. Sometimes you fight it, sometimes you don’t . But the voice is always right in the end . DJ_DD , Franco Dal Molin Report Final score: 37points POST No you didn't No you didn't Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago This was usually my #1 indicator. 1 1point reply View more comments #26 "(S)He is just a friend, you don't have to worry about them" -> spends more time with friend than partner.
(might sound lame because of the memes, but my almost 6 years SO cheated on me and now is dating the 'friend') VelkenT , Sirenz Lorraine Report Final score: 35points POST Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Thats tough 10 10points reply View more comments #27 When all you can think about is how different you are.
When you're lying or making excuses to not be with them.
When they go on a Spring Break trip and screw a guy she went to high school with repeatedly for a week. [deleted] , Francesco Report Final score: 34points POST Supernatural Supernatural Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Wow...that went downhill fast! 25 25points reply View More Replies... View more comments #28 When someone says your SO's name and you give a sigh or a grimaced look on your face. llcucf80 , Lindspetrol Report Final score: 33points POST Albino Albino Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago At that point it's long over. 11 11points reply #29 When spending time is something you have to give effort to actively think about and plan out as opposed to something you look forward to and excitedly long for. I know that's what it was for me: she became a block in my schedule instead of the reason my schedule existed. maleorderbride , Nicholas Canup Report Final score: 31points POST Tee Witt Tee Witt Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago That sounds so sad. 6 6points reply View more comments #30 When either of you whip out your phone constantly when together. Can't hold a moment of comfortable silence to appreciate you both being in each other's presence. PassiveBrandon , Susanne Nilsson Report Final score: 27points POST ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago don't agree with this one, we spend a lot of time on our phones, it doesn't necessarily mean that. I'd say this point is correct if they're both looking at tinder or facebook. But if you're reading the news or watching cat videos i think it is fine. 16 16points reply View More Replies... View more comments Note: this post originally had 34 images. It’s been shortened to the top 30 images based on user votes. Anyone can write on Bored Panda. Start writing! Follow Bored Panda on Google News! Follow us on Flipboard.com/@boredpanda! Add Your Answer! Not your original work? Add source Publish Change image Upload Photo Ooops! Your image is too large, maximum file size is 8 MB. Upload Upload Edit Image Error occurred when generating embed. Please check link and try again. Render conversation
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POST DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I don't want to come across as smug, but reading this post reminds me how amazing my own relationship is. Things are shitty in several aspects of my life, but my bond with my wife isn't one of them. She's my rock, and I'm hers. However, I've definitely experienced some of these points in previous relationships. 16 16points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Aww. You're very lucky! 4 4points reply Load More Replies... DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I really am. 0 0points reply Susie Elle Susie Elle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago These aren't red flags - these are the giant red banners you're wrapped in after having ignored the red flags for years. 14 14points reply Amy Dodds Amy Dodds Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) When they knowingly restrain your limbs when you have a phobia and don't let go as you scream 'get off!!' over and over again. Then they try to change the narrative, saying they were just trying to cuddle you, and suddenly you started punching them?? Then they come home, pour juice over your head and smear food in your hair and face while screaming at you for not apologising to them when you have already apologised over and over. Last night was interesting. 7 7points reply ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago hmm that's assault. lay a charge, get a restraining order, and move out. 15 15points reply Load More Replies... LB LB Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I am so sorry this happened. Some aspects of this remind me of my abusive marriage. He would do physically intimidating things that made me feel uncomfortable and scared, and if I pushed him away, he would say that I attacked him for no reason. They are f*****g with your head. They are abusing you and trying to make you feel at fault. It is not your fault. It took me a long time to leave. I wish I had left sooner, but I’m so glad I eventually got out. You don’t deserve this. Don’t believe the lies. Please leave as quickly and safely as you can. Please access the domestic violence hotline or any other domestic violence services that are available where you live. Even just talking with someone can be helpful. Before, during, and after getting out - there are people who can help you and help you recover. Wishing for your health and safety, and sending hugs. 9 9points reply Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Oh my goodness. Are u ok? 8 8points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Good god, call the police! 7 7points reply Heidi Heidi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago What Amy?! This is way too nonchalant, be good to yourself and don't accept that behavior. 5 5points reply Falanu Hlaalu Falanu Hlaalu Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago RUN 4 4points reply Zedrapazia Zedrapazia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago S**t, what happened to you? 4 4points reply Load More Comments POST DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I don't want to come across as smug, but reading this post reminds me how amazing my own relationship is. Things are shitty in several aspects of my life, but my bond with my wife isn't one of them. She's my rock, and I'm hers. However, I've definitely experienced some of these points in previous relationships. 16 16points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Aww. You're very lucky! 4 4points reply Load More Replies... DrBronxx DrBronxx Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 10 months ago I really am. 0 0points reply Susie Elle Susie Elle Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago These aren't red flags - these are the giant red banners you're wrapped in after having ignored the red flags for years. 14 14points reply Amy Dodds Amy Dodds Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago (edited) When they knowingly restrain your limbs when you have a phobia and don't let go as you scream 'get off!!' over and over again. Then they try to change the narrative, saying they were just trying to cuddle you, and suddenly you started punching them?? Then they come home, pour juice over your head and smear food in your hair and face while screaming at you for not apologising to them when you have already apologised over and over. Last night was interesting. 7 7points reply ZAPanda ZAPanda Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago hmm that's assault. lay a charge, get a restraining order, and move out. 15 15points reply Load More Replies... LB LB Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago I am so sorry this happened. Some aspects of this remind me of my abusive marriage. He would do physically intimidating things that made me feel uncomfortable and scared, and if I pushed him away, he would say that I attacked him for no reason. They are f*****g with your head. They are abusing you and trying to make you feel at fault. It is not your fault. It took me a long time to leave. I wish I had left sooner, but I’m so glad I eventually got out. You don’t deserve this. Don’t believe the lies. Please leave as quickly and safely as you can. Please access the domestic violence hotline or any other domestic violence services that are available where you live. Even just talking with someone can be helpful. Before, during, and after getting out - there are people who can help you and help you recover. Wishing for your health and safety, and sending hugs. 9 9points reply Dina Simoné Dina Simoné Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Oh my goodness. Are u ok? 8 8points reply Katie Lutesinger Katie Lutesinger Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago Good god, call the police! 7 7points reply Heidi Heidi Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago What Amy?! This is way too nonchalant, be good to yourself and don't accept that behavior. 5 5points reply Falanu Hlaalu Falanu Hlaalu Community Member • points posts comments upvotes FollowUnfollow 11 months ago RUN 4 4points reply Zedrapazia Zedrapazia Community Member • points posts comments upvotes 11 months ago S**t, what happened to you? 4 4points reply Load More Comments Popular on Bored Panda I Used AI To See What These 23 Popular Cartoon Characters Would Look Like In Real Life 30 Y.O. Woman Takes DNA Test For Fun Only To Discover Her Long-Term Boyfriend Is Her Full Sibling "I Just Said Thank You And Left": Man’s Nice Gesture Is Praised After Pizza Hut Driver Got A $20 Tip On A $938 Order Woman Flabbergasted At Thrift Store's Prices, Calls Them Out By Sharing 14 Examples 50 Parents Having A Pretty Miserable Day Photoshop Troll Who Takes Photo Requests Too Literally Strikes Again, And The Result Is Hilarious (17 Pics) Popular on Bored Panda 30 Y.O. 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